My UK Collection

My British Collections of 7 Years: Everyday Life & Culture 🇬🇧

When I first moved to the UK, I thought I knew English. But living here taught me so much more — not just the language, but the culture, humour, and way of life. Over time, I built my own little ‘British collection’ of lessons:

The Meaning of Words

In my neighbourhood, people would say “You alright?”. At first, I tried to answer — until I learned it simply means “hello.” And “cheers”? It’s not just for toasts. It can mean thank you, goodbye, or even just a friendly smile.

The Power of Politeness

“Sorry” doesn’t always mean something is wrong. It can be excuse me, passing by, softening a phrase, or simply kindness. A small word with big power.

Weather Obsession

Every conversation seems to begin (and end) with the weather. And yes — sunshine can turn into rain in minutes. The golden rule: never leave home without an umbrella!

Sense of Humour

In a bakery, I once asked for bread and the man said “No.” Shocked, I realised it was a joke. British humour is full of irony and quick wit — and once I started catching it, making connections became easier.

Terms of Endearment

On my daily bus, the driver greeted me with “Good morning, my love.” At first surprising, now it makes me smile. “Love,” “darling,” and “mate” are just everyday friendliness.

The Tube

It’s not the metro. It’s not the subway. It’s simply “the Tube.”

Queuing: A National Art

Queuing politely is sacred. Cutting in line? Almost unthinkable.

Pub Culture

In pubs, drinks go in rounds: everyone buys for the group. I didn’t know this at first — but it’s part of the tradition, along with Sunday roasts and quiz nights.

Dress Codes

You can wear almost anything anywhere. But at gala dinners, Christmas parties, or Ascot, tradition shines. Dress to impress is alive and my favorite.

Tea as the Universal Answer

Breakfast tea in the morning, Earl Grey in the afternoon. Whatever happens — good or bad — it often starts with: “Shall we have a cuppa?”

Traditions & Quirky Days

Christmas Jumper Day , Remembrance poppies , Boxing Day sales, even swimming in the sea on Christmas morning . At first I only observed, later I joined in — and loved it.

Parks & Outdoor Life

In Turkey, I stayed inside when it rained. In the UK, I put on boots and went to the park anyway. I fell in love with long walks in Hampstead Heath — drizzle included.

Driving in the UK

After years of driving in Istanbul, I had to re-learn here: left-hand side, roundabouts, no honking. Different rules — but surprisingly, I adapted quickly. And I passed the Driving exams in UK at 50’s.

Black Cabs

Once I experienced a black cab, there was no going back. The drivers’ politeness and knowledge make the ride worth every penny.

Christmas Lights

Everyone loves the lights and shopping campaigns. But the best part for me was the switch-on ceremonies — neighbours gathering to celebrate together.

These may seem like small things, but for me they are big lessons. They helped me not just live here, but truly connect and feel at home.

“Next: Volume 2 — My Learnings at Workplace Culture & Leadership in the UK ‘’